Which Table Manners Can My Toddler Learn?

My wife and I love going out to restaurants, and we really want to take our toddler with us. How do we start teaching table manners to him when we’re eating at home? What are some table manners that very young children are able to understand?
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Updated March 2, 2017
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Your toddler should be able to learn the basics of table manners: to wash his hands before each meal, to eat with utensils instead of his fingers, to say please and thank you, to keep his voice down. And be firm and consistent when you’re teaching him these skills.

Sometimes toddlers forget the rules — for example, eating with their hands because it just seems like a faster way to get the food to his mouth. In that case, hand him his spoon as a reminder of what is and isn’t okay.

He learns, for the most part, from watching you. So, if he sees you enjoying meal time, odds are good that he’ll enjoy it too.

Please note: The Bump and the materials and information it contains are not intended to, and do not constitute, medical or other health advice or diagnosis and should not be used as such. You should always consult with a qualified physician or health professional about your specific circumstances.

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