The Baby Products You Don’t Plan For—But End Up Ordering at 2 a.m.
Sleep when the baby sleeps, they say—but the reality? It’s 2 a.m. and you’re frantically Googling why your newborn won’t stop crying, or adding a seemingly random baby product to your cart for next-day delivery. You may have spent months carefully building your registry, but what about those baby items you don’t even know you need until you’re in the thick of those first few hazy weeks at home?
“When my daughter was born, my wife and I were living in the Midwest while both of our parents were on the East Coast,” says Daniel C., dad of one and Associate Director of e-commerce content at The Bump. “When you have to muddle through on your own, you’d be amazed by how much manages to take you by surprise.”
“Nobody really wants to see the truth of a new parent’s overnight Amazon cart because it’s usually 25 different swaddles, three gas drops, a baby shusher, and pure hope that tomorrow night will somehow be different,” says Erica Livingston, founder of Birdsong Doulas.
Experts say there’s a reason everything feels harder after dark. “Up until the birth of the baby, nighttime is when you sleep. Since you are being forced to do the opposite, it can feel like something is wrong instead of normal,” says Mindy Cockeram, IBCLC, an educator and author based in Loma Linda, California. The nighttime overwhelm with a newborn is real—and as a mom of two, I’ve spent my fair share of middle-of-the-night hours troubleshooting my boys’ common newborn issues and adding more than one product to my cart out of sheer desperation. And as a longtime product tester and contributor to The Bump, I’ve learned which baby products are truly worth having on hand when the unexpected comes up.
The first few weeks with a newborn are full of unexpected moments—especially overnight, when even a small problem can feel exacerbated by lack of sleep. Each pick was selected for its ability to solve a specific, real-life problem in those first few weeks with a newborn. Here are the steps we took to build this article.
- I drew from my experience as a mom of two, including the products I personally relied on during those first few weeks at home with a newborn.
- We interviewed a postpartum doula and a lactation consultant for their advice on products and common feeding issues.
- We polled our editorial team here at The Bump for their recommendations on what worked well for them. After all, we’re not just pregnancy and parenting experts—we’re also moms and dads.
Editorial integrity is at the heart of everything we publish. Read more about how The Bump develops our product reviews.
When baby is uncomfortable
If your newborn seems unusually fussy, pulls their legs toward their tummy or cries after feeding, gas discomfort might be the culprit. These gentle remedies are popular picks for helping to soothe baby.
Gas drops
Sometimes you've tried everything you can think of when baby's having a nighttime cry. You've gone through all five S's and you're willing to try T, U and V as well. And it turns out, baby just has a run-of-the-mill tummy ache. These dye-free simethicone drops are formulated to break up gas bubbles in baby’s tummy, helping to relieve discomfort that can lead to fussiness––especially after nighttime feeds. With a simple ingredient list and an easy-to-use dropper, they’re a favorite for many parents.
Gripe water
My first baby had reflux and this was our go-to for middle-of-the-night pains. While I’d never claim it solved all of our problems, I can say it made a difference. This ginger and fennel herbal supplement would gently settle him and often helped calm the intense hiccups that would rattle his whole little body.
When something feels off
Few things send new parents off into a late night spiral faster than a baby who feels warm, sounds congested or just seems a little off. Having a few basic tools on hand can help you decide if you can manage baby at home or if it’s time to see the pediatrician.
Rectal thermometer
You can't plan out the first time baby has a fever—do yourself a favor and make sure you have a good thermometer in-hand before you need it. A rectal thermometer is the most accurate way to check a newborn’s temperature and this affordable option is designed with a short, flexible tip for gentle use. I was admittedly intimidated the first time I had to take my baby’s temperature rectally, but this thermometer’s simple design, quick readings and easy-to-read digital display made the process feel a little less daunting.
Saline spray
Having natural products on hand for my boys was really important to me, and this drug-free, preservative-free saline mist was a great grab item for moisturizing dry nasal passages and made it easier to clear baby’s nose with an aspirator. Safe for newborns, it’s one of those simple products that can make a big difference when congestion is interfering with feeding or sleep.
Nasal aspirator
When your newborn sounds congested, it can make feeding and sleep more challenging, especially in the middle of the night. This doctor-designed nasal aspirator uses gentle, parent-controlled suction to clear mucus from baby’s nose and disposable hygiene filters help prevent mucus and germs from reaching the mouthpiece.
This model was a favorite of Daniel, our associate director, who tells us, "Frida Baby was the only nasal aspirator that worked for our family. We tried bulbs, but our daughter fought them tooth and nail, screaming bloody murder if anything came near her already tender nose. And of course, the longer she's crying, the worse her snot gets." He adds, "The sucking seems weird, but trust me, when you see how quickly it works, you get over it fast. This thing is a life saver."
When feeding isn’t going as planned
Feeding challenges are incredibly common in the early newborn days. Whether baby is struggling to latch, cluster feeding or seemingly still hungry after a marathon triple-feeding season, it can be hard to figure out what’s normal—especially once the sun goes down and you’re running on little sleep. “Many parents have no idea how often a baby will need to feed in a 24-hour period,” says Cockeram. What feels like nonstop feeding is often completely normal in those first few weeks, and these products can help make it easier.
Ready-to-feed formula
One thing that might come as a surprise to new parents: Even if you plan to exclusively breastfeed, a small supply of ready-to-feed formula can be a helpful backup in the early days. My oldest son was breastfed for two years, but we supplemented with this formula during his first few days while we worked through jaundice and waited for my milk to fully come in. Unlike powdered formula, ready-to-feed options require no measuring or mixing, and these 2-ounce bottles were ideal when I was desperate for a quick solution.
Single bottle alternatives
Even if you’ve already stocked up on baby bottles, there’s no guarantee your baby will take to the one you chose. That’s why I recommend keeping a couple of single bottles from other brands on hand rather than committing to one large multipack right away. Livingston says that having a few bottle options can be especially helpful for families navigating feeding challenges or moving through the “trying every bottle in existence” phase. “These are some of the bottles I most consistently recommend from the start,” she says.
When sleep isn’t happening
Before assuming your newborn’s sleep struggles are behavioral, it’s worth considering whether hunger is the real issue. Cockeram notes that hunger is often the root problem in those early newborn weeks. But sometimes your baby is fed, changed and seemingly has every need met––and still won’t settle. In those moments, a few sleep tools can help create a calmer environment and encourage everyone to get a little more rest.
Portable white noise machine
"Our daughter was born in Chicago," says Daniel, our associate director, "and it's crazy how much city noise you get acclimated to over time, but is brand new to your child." A white noise machine, like this portable option from Love to Dream, can help keep the outside world from disturbing baby's slumber. And don’t let the word “portable” fool you––this compact sound machine is just as useful at home as it is on the go. I love that it can clip to a stroller or car seat, but is also easy to keep near baby’s bassinet at home to help drown out anything from honking cabs outside to big sibling noise in the next room. It offers nine soothing sound options to help baby settle wherever they sleep.
Swaddle alternative
Learning to swaddle a baby is one of the most useful things you can do before baby arrives. But even if you learn to make the perfect baby burrito, it turns out not every baby likes having their arms swaddled down. "I can’t tell you how many families end up discovering their baby was fighting the swaddle style, not the swaddle itself," Livingston says. She recommends that every family pick up one Love to Dream Swaddle Up as a backup option—it's designed with a unique arms-up shape that allows babies to sleep in a more natural position.
When you realize you’re not prepared for the mess
What surprised me most about my little ones? How someone so tiny could create so much laundry. From blowouts and spit-up to overnight crib leaks, these practical essentials can help you contain the mess, save your favorite onesies and make cleanup a whole lot easier.
The next size up in diapers
With my first baby, I wondered why diapers started leaking in the middle of the night. By the time my second baby arrived, I knew to keep the next size up on hand, since sometimes the simplest fix for recurring leaks is sizing up. If leaks and blowouts suddenly become more frequent, it may be a sign that baby is ready for the next diaper size, and you're going to want to have them handy the moment they're needed. Rascals became a favorite in our house because they’re thick, highly absorbent and fit snugly around baby’s legs to help contain messes without the hefty price tag.
Disposable changing pads
A washable changing pad cover is great, but prepping laundry isn't something you're going to want to deal with in the middle of the night. These absorbent, waterproof pads create a protective barrier during 2 a.m. diaper changes, making them especially useful when you’re dealing with a messy blowout. Instead of worrying about soiling the changing pad cover or your bed, you can simply toss the pad and get everyone back to bed.
Powerful stain remover
Blowout stains have a way of setting fast, especially when you’re too exhausted to tackle the laundry right away. This stain remover has saved countless onesies in my house and remains my go-to for everything from food to grass stains. I recently sent the link to my brother, who initially thought it was pricey—until he saw how well it worked on his son’s grubby T-shirts. It’s the only product that consistently rescued my favorite zipper sleepers from blowout stains so I could pass them down to my youngest. And trust me, you’ll want the big bottle.
Large multipurpose blankets
You know you're going to need baby blankets, but no matter how ready you think you are, you don't know how often you'll need them. Lightweight, breathable and endlessly versatile, these oversized muslin swaddles are something I reached for constantly. “Large square muslin swaddles are incredibly versatile beyond swaddling alone,” says Erica Livingston. “Families end up using them constantly as burp cloths, light blankets, nursing covers, changing surfaces, stroller shades and general postpartum life tools.” In my experience, these were one of the hardest-working newborn items.
Crib mattress protector
There’s nothing worse than realizing your baby has soaked through the crib sheet when all you want is to get everyone back to sleep. A friend taught me a trick that saved my sanity more than once: layer a waterproof mattress protector between two crib sheets, so if there’s a leak or spit-up, you can simply peel off the top layer and have a fresh sheet ready to go underneath. It’s one of those simple nursery hacks that made a huge difference when I was running on very little sleep.
When something unexpected comes up
Some newborn moments catch you completely off guard, like when you discover that the tiny fingernails you just marveled at in the hospital are sharp enough to leave scratches on their face, or when you wake up with a painfully clogged duct. “Sometimes what families need most in those moments is reassurance, grounding and a few practical tools to try before panic takes over,” says Livingston.
Night-friendly electric nail file
Newborn nails are surprisingly sharp and trimming them down with traditional nail clippers can be nerve-racking––especially at 2 a.m when baby has scratched their face. This whisper-quiet electric nail file gently buffs tiny nails using age-specific filing pads, and the built-in LED light makes it easier to actually see what you’re doing. It’s one of those products that takes the stress out of an otherwise intimidating task.
Lactation massager
If you’re dealing with a clogged duct or the sudden onset of mastitis, relief can’t come soon enough. This handheld tool combines vibration and gentle warmth to help loosen blockages and ease engorgement. “When I developed mastitis a couple weeks postpartum, it hit hard and fast—within hours I was in agony and desperate for relief,” says Ashlee N., mom of two and content director at The Bump. “I tossed a lactation massager into my Amazon cart, and the next day I tackled the blockage with the tool’s massage, vibration and heat. It was a total game-changer. Thank goodness for overnight shipping.”
What helps you get through the night
Large water bottle
The ever-popular Stanley tumbler is a practical pick for staying hydrated during those marathon feeding sessions. “Honestly, some of the most-used items are the least glamorous," says Livingston. "A good water bottle for the parent, easy snacks, extra zip pajamas and enough lighting to safely feed a baby at 3 a.m. without fully waking everyone up.” This 30-ounce stainless steel tumbler keeps water cold for hours and features a flip straw that makes it easy to sip one-handed while holding baby.
Suction-powered pump
Beloved by breastfeeding parents, the Haakaa has earned cult-favorite status for good reason. The simple silicone pump uses gentle suction to collect milk from the opposite breast while you nurse, helping you save milk that would otherwise leak away and go to waste. “I’d heard of it once or twice before the baby came but just thought it was a manual pump and wouldn’t be necessary because I already had an electric pump,” says Maura O., mom of one and senior content production associate for The Bump. “My baby was premature, so feeding was a bit challenging at the start. With the Haakaa, he was able to get all the milk that would’ve otherwise just gone to waste in a nursing pad.”
Soft newborn wrap carrier
Carriers are the kind of thing you assume will be a daytime item, and not something you use in the house. But when your baby will only get to sleep on you, a soft wrap carrier can be the difference between being stuck on the couch and being able to grab a snack, read a book or simply have both hands free. Made from lightweight, breathable lyocell modal, the wrap creates a snug, womb-like fit. Maura says if she could go back, she would have opted for a softer newborn wrap carrier instead of relying solely on a more structured carrier for those early weeks.
Feeding pillow
Whether you’re breastfeeding or bottle-feeding, a supportive nursing pillow can make those marathon feeding sessions far more comfortable. The Boppy helps bring baby to a more ergonomic position, reducing strain on your arms, shoulders and back. You may not think you'll need one, but you won't be the first mom to be surprised by how vital is it. “Say it with me: Breastfeeding pillow!” says Natalie G., senior lifecycle editor at The Bump. “That Boppy was everything, but I only thought to get it a week or two after my son was born. It saved my back and traveled with me everywhere.”
About the writer:
Christine Carpenter is a mom of two and a contributing writer, editor and product tester for The Bump. After spending countless middle-of-the-night hours troubleshooting common issues with her little boys, she knows firsthand which baby products are truly worth having on hand when the unexpected arises—and loves supporting parents as they find what works for them.
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Mindy Cockeram is a Board Certified Lactation Consultant, Educator and Author. In addition to her private practice, she teaches childbirth and breastfeeding education for a large hospital organization in Southern California. Her books include Pump It Up! A Practical Guide to Confident & Efficient Breast Pumping and Breastfeeding Doesn't Have to Suck: Tips, Tricks and Knowledge for a Great Experience.
Erica Livingston is a postpartum doula, educator and mentor with over a decade of experience supporting more than 1,000 families through pregnancy, birth and especially the newborn and postpartum period in New York City. In addition to direct client care, she mentors doulas and teaches postpartum-centered education and support practices to birth workers around the country. She is the founder of Birdsong Doulas, a “postpartum-centered maternal health and education brand rooted in justice, mentorship, and collective care.”
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