How to Safely Enjoy a Prenatal Massage

Pregnancy can certainly prove taxing, both physically and mentally. Your body is tired and sore, and your mind is racing with anxious thoughts—nothing a soothing massage couldn’t cure. But can you get a massage while pregnant? The answer is a resounding yes. When performed properly, prenatal massage has a myriad of benefits for a mom-to-be. Whether you’re looking to book a spa day out, or tasking your partner with this hands-on job, we’ve got you covered. Below, experts share everything you want to know about prenatal massage.

What Is a Prenatal Massage?

Prenatal massage is more than just a pampering spa service to splurge on for special occasions—it’s actually a type of therapy in integrative medicine. Trained professionals use their hands to apply pressure and movement to different parts of the body to stimulate muscles, ligaments, tendons and skin. A pregnancy massage is tailored to address the tight spots that may be exacerbated by pregnancy, all while prioritizing your safety (and that of baby’s).

“The massage can be transformative, releasing long-held tension with the right pressure and positioning,” says Sara Lyon, a licensed massage therapist and founder of Glow Birth & Body, a prenatal and postpartum massage therapy practice with locations in California, New York and Illinois. “It takes into account the anatomical and endocrine changes impacting the pregnant body. Prenatal hormones like oxytocin and relaxin are optimal for deep relaxation and tissue healing. It’s an opportunity to take advantage of those hormones and elevate the massage experience.”

Most spas offer pregnancy massages (often called “mommy-to-be” massages), but you can also get one at certain clinics and medical centers, or from doulas certified in massage therapy.

When Can You Get a Prenatal Massage?

The answer to this will likely depend on your individual circumstances. According to Field, you can get a prenatal massage at any point in pregnancy, even early on. In fact, a massage in the first trimester may be particularly helpful if you have morning sickness. While there’s no direct research that links massage to pregnancy-related nausea relief, a study found that a 20-minute massage significantly reduced nausea in breast cancer patients undergoing chemotherapy.

That said, the American Pregnancy Association (APA) notes that some facilities may decline to offer pregnancy massages for moms-to-be who are still in their first trimester. This is due to the increased risk of miscarriage, which is statistically more likely to happen during the first 12 weeks of any pregnancy, and wanting to avoid avoid any liability issues. While research hasn’t found a correlation between prenatal massage in the first trimester and miscarriage, based on your pregnancy, your ob-gyn may not recommend getting them until you’re closer to 23 or 24 weeks to ensure viability.

You might think you’ve missed your opportunity to enjoy a prenatal massage by the time you hit the third trimester (after all, you can barely find a comfortable position, let alone be still for a whole hour). On the contrary, massage can help relax you; it may even work as a preparatory exercise for labor. “Massage allows the pregnant client to practice breathing through physical intensity to release muscles, softening instead of holding against the pain,” says Lyon. “This is also the ideal reaction to contractions. There are very few things you can do to practice that kind of physical and mental surrender.”

A massage may even help you at the onset of labor—just don’t count on it as an alternative to an epidural. While some studies have found that massage at regular intervals throughout the labor can help lower anxiety and pain levels, other research has failed to show the effectiveness of massage in easing labor pain.

So when can you get a prenatal massage? Unfortunately, there isn’t a straightforward answer here—and it’ll likely vary from person to person. Reach out to your provider for advice tailored to your specific situation.

Prenatal Massage Benefits

The physical stimulation of massage for pregnant women can ease tightness and discomfort and release tension and stress. But in fact, research shows ample and far-ranging benefits of prenatal massage in addition to working out any old aches, pains and kinks.

• Reduces muscle pain. As baby grows, your body has to account for the changes—and that can cause some discomfort. “The most common request from pregnant guests involves massages that are focused on the lower back, hips, neck and feet,” says Tiffany Delalay, spa director at The Spa at MacArthur in Sonoma, California. “It makes complete sense—those areas can be most impacted by increased weight and swelling that occurs during pregnancy.” Prenatal massage can also help ease neck and shoulder pain, as well as sciatica, a common complaint among moms-to-be, as the pelvis flares open to accommodate the growing baby.
• Bolsters immune function. Staying healthy is all the more important when you’re expecting, but pregnancy naturally lowers your immune defenses. It’s of note, then, that in animal studies, mice that were hand-stroked, as opposed to brush-stroked, had a better immune system response. Research also shows a boost in immunity for chemotherapy and immunodeficiency disorder patients undergoing massage therapies. “Physiologically, massage increases circulation and helps the body flush out toxins via the lymphatic system,” adds Lyon.
• Lowers risk of prenatal depression. Moderate pressure and touch stimulate the skin, which in turn activates nerve receptors to calm the mind. The vagus nerve, in particular, serves to regulate internal organ function, including heart rate and respiratory rate. “The increase in vagal activity slows down the nervous system; reduces stress hormones like cortisol; increases the love hormone, oxytocin and increases serotonin, the body’s natural antidepressant and anti-pain neurotransmitter,” says Tiffany M. Field, PhD, director of the Touch Research Institute at the University of Miami School of Medicine. In one study, published in the Journal of Bodyworks and Movement Therapies, getting a 20-minute pregnancy massage twice a week for three months showed a decrease in depression and anxiety.
• May help prevent preterm labor. Prenatal depression is also linked to preterm birth between 32 and 36 weeks of pregnancy, as well as low birth weight for baby, according to research. Elevated stress hormones, like cortisol, can cause complications with the placenta, explains Field. A prenatal massage can bring these biochemical changes into balance, maintaining a healthy in-utero environment for baby.

Prenatal Massage Safety Tips

A pregnancy massage is meant to nurture you, so to fully enjoy it, you’ll want to put your mind at ease knowing that you and baby are safe. A massage during pregnancy doesn’t differ all that much from a regular massage, but there are a few safety tips to keep in mind when you’re expecting.

• Assume a safe position. Starting in the second trimester (and beyond), lying on your side—possibly propped up by pillows—is ideal during a prenatal massage, says Meleen Chuang, MD, an ob-gyn and clinical associate professor at the Family Health Centers at NYU Langone. Lying on your stomach is no longer a comfortable or safe option, and massage tables that feature a belly cutout can still apply pressure to your abdomen, notes Chuang. Plus, having your belly dangle can also cause the uterine ligaments to stretch uncomfortably. Lying on your back once you’re in your second trimester can also be unsafe, as the weight of your growing belly can compress an important blood vessel in your back and interfere with blood flow to baby. (If you ever do feel out of breath during the massage, try switching up your position and pausing to drink some water, advises Alicia Robbins, MD, a board-certified ob-gyn and founder of The Elm in Greenwich, Connecticut.)
• Avoid extremes. Most massage therapists won’t offer hot stone massage for their pregnant clients, as raising your core temperature isn’t recommended in pregnancy. Many also decline to perform deep tissue massage, since too much pressure—especially near veins in the legs—can potentially dislodge a blood clot, which expectant moms are at higher risk of developing. According to Field, moderate pressure that moves the skin is optimal.
• Do your due diligence. When getting a pregnancy massage, always seek out a certified massage therapist who is trained specifically in prenatal massage, and get the green light from your doctor before booking an appointment.

Where not to massage a pregnant woman

There are plenty of areas on a mom-to-be’s body that could benefit from extra attention, given the typical aches and pains of pregnancy, but there are also a few spots that massage therapists will generally avoid when performing maternity massage.

• Leg veins. One study highlighted that pregnant women are more likely to have unidentified deep vein thrombosis. It’s possible that a vigorous leg massage could dislodge a blood clot, potentially leading to an embolism. “Steer clear of veins,” Field says.
• Belly. Lightly stroking your baby bump is perfectly normal (especially when you feel those baby kicks!), but you don’t want to actually massage the belly, Chuang notes.
• Ankles. While there’s no scientific data showing that a foot massage during pregnancy can prompt labor, anecdotal evidence suggests massaging the Achilles tendon can stimulate contractions, though the link is unclear. Delalay says, to be safe, avoiding the ankle during the first trimester is a good idea. “That area has pressure points that correlate with the reproductive organs,” she says. When in doubt, an Epsom salt foot soak is a good alternative.

It’s true there are certain pressure points that may stimulate the uterus and cause contractions, but an average prenatal massage from a well-trained therapist isn’t going to catapult you into labor. “The body usually has to be on the verge of labor already for those points to be effective,” Lyon explains. The most important thing is to listen to your body, see what feels good and speak up when something doesn’t.

When is a prenatal massage unsafe?

While maternity massages are generally considered safe, you always want to check with your provider before making an appointment—particularly if you’re experiencing a high-risk pregnancy. As mentioned, it’s unlikely a prenatal massage will cause labor, however, Chuang notes they may not be recommended for pregnant people with conditions including:

• Preeclampsia
• High blood pressure
• Gestational diabetes
• Severe swelling
• A history of preterm labor
• Any other complications that could be aggravated by massage

Prenatal Massage at Home: How to Massage a Pregnant Woman

You may be tempted to hire a live-in masseuse for the duration of your pregnancy, but turning to your partner or a vibrating massager may be the next best thing.

To get set up, make sure you’re comfortable. Tucking supportive cushions under you helps keep the body in alignment when you’re lying on your side. Place a pillow between your knees for added support. Next, consider if you’d like to use a lotion or massage oil. While essential oils are by no means necessary for a successful at-home prenatal massage, aromatherapy can enhance the experience. “I love using lavender for our pregnancy massages for its relaxing and baby-safe properties,” Delalay says. Just give the oils a sniff before using to make sure your heightened senses aren’t offended, and steer clear of certain essential oils (like fennel and sage) that aren’t recommended during pregnancy.

Ready to try a prenatal massage at home? Here are some key pointers from the pros.

Foot massage during pregnancy

Your partner can still massage your feet, as long as they’re careful to avoid the ankle area. Note that in acupressure, the flat side of the heel is linked to the lower back and glutes, while applying pressure to the space under your big toe can help relieve neck pain.

Leg massage during pregnancy

Instead of kneading your leg muscles (especially if you have varicose veins), have your partner rotate your thigh muscles (quads and hamstrings) around your femur—first clockwise, then counter clockwise—as you stand leaning over a chair or countertop. “These leg muscles attach at your lower back and pelvis, so you’ll feel everything releasing with the motion,” Lyon adds.

Hip massage during pregnancy

Lyon recommends a standing “double hip squeeze,” which can be a great massage during pregnancy and even labor. Lean forward onto a table or countertop with your forearms supporting the upper body. Ask your partner to stand behind you and squeeze your hips (the fleshy sides of glutes) inward. They should hold, but not massage, your hips for 10 seconds and then release. Repeat several times. “The counter pressure of your partner’s palms pressing into your hips will relax your lower back, hips and upper legs,” Lyon says.

Back massage during pregnancy

You can do this lying on your side or while straddling a chair. Have your partner start with your lower back by applying pressure with their fists to the upper buttock area, and then work their way up your spine.

Shoulder massage during pregnancy

Since your neck and shoulders carry a lot of tension, ask your partner to ease any knots with long, moderate-pressure movement down your trapezius muscles—the back muscles that extend down your neck, out to your shoulders and into your upper back, forming a trapezoid shape. “During pregnancy, expecting mothers’ posture shifts to accommodate the increased amount of weight on the front of the body,” Delalay says. “Because of this, it’s so important to focus on massaging not only the lower back, but also the neck and upper back.”

Pregnancy brings significant changes to your body and mind. Prenatal massage can offer some welcomed respite from those challenges. As Lyon says: “There truly is no bad time for a massage.”

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